We Left the City and Never Recalled

If you ever dream of a fresh start in the country, you're not alone. Hear what it's like from 3 families who in fact made the leap.
Who hasn't dreamed of dropping city life and transferring to the nation? Maybe you have actually spent weekend trips browsing the local realty listings, baffled by how far a dollar can stretch: A farmhouse (with acreage!) for what a walkup studio would cost in the city?

In 2012, I made the jump, moving from Seattle to a small summer season town in Maine. I began photographing these people and interviewing them about their victories and challenges in transitioning to nation living. The task took flight instantly-- clearly I wasn't the only one believing about leaving the city.

Do not take it from me. Hear it from these three households who left the city behind for a new beginning.

Photography by Alissa Hessler. You can learn more profiles like these on Urban Exodus and in her book Ditch the City and Go Country.



Kenzie and Shawn Fields
When a household of New Yorkers found a wacky house in the Berkshires at a 3rd the cost of their city cage, they figured it was fate.
Moved from: New York City, pop. 8.5 million
Kenzie and Shawn Fields were living in what the majority of New York households would consider a dream scenario-- a three-bedroom coop home in a desirable Brooklyn area. It was enough area for their household of five, without any concern of a rent walking. To manage living in the city, though, both Kenzie and Shawn needed to work long hours. Shawn, a painter and illustrator, worked as a studio assistant for a recognized artist and was only able to produce his own operate in his off hours.

When Kenzie's parents transferred to the Berkshires, an imaginative center in the mountains of Massachusetts, the Fields household came for a visit and began dreaming of leaving the city behind. The couple wished to give their kids a childhood immersed in nature and access to great public schools. "It felt like an inspired idea," remembers Shawn. "But when I thought about all the fears and unknowns, logically it was a bad idea since what we had in the city was really great." When they stumbled across their storybook 1756 home while delicately taking a look at realty listings, though, they felt that fate was pushing their hand. "On what I believed was a lark, we took a look at a house in a town with a fantastic little school," states Shawn. "The home mortgage on the house was about a 3rd of our home's home loan. That go to sealed the offer."

Transferred to: New Marlborough, Mass., pop. 1,509
Shawn and Kenzie took a leap of faith and moved their family to New Marlborough. "Residing in a village in the nation was a good response for us," says Kenzie. "We're actions from a post workplace, library, automobile mechanic and a basic store. We live throughout from a rushing creek, which is reassuring. There's no deafening rural silence. Rural does not need to imply empty and vast."

Rather of continuing to strive to even more the careers of other artists, the couple decided to focus their efforts on building Shawn's fine-art service. Offering up their steady city incomes while taking on the costs of winter heating and taking care of an old home hasn't been a cinch, however they can't envision returning to the confined boundaries of city living.

Entering their house resembles strolling into among Shawn's narrative paintings. On a normal day, their child, Honey, may greet you in the lawn with an animal rabbit, their child Peter may follow you around with his brass trumpet, and their other child Odie might offer to carry out a magic technique. They have gotten crafty-- repurposing wood, windows and thrifted treasures to change their cottage into a cozy, quirky wonderland.

The kids have far more liberty to check out now-- they spend hours playing in the creek by their home and offering at the library down the street. And they've all discovered, states Kenzie, that "the chance to care is more present when you're out of the overwhelming scale of a city. When my mom passed away, individuals we didn't understand well left whole meals on our deck."

They love the natural setting of their new life, states Kenzie. "Playing charades with our neighbors, heating with wood, the animals, library pie sales, town hall conferences.

Richard Blanco
A Cuban-American poet found the peaceful he requires to write-- plus a sense of belonging-- in a small Maine town.
Moved from: San Antonio, Texas
At President Obama's second inauguration in 2013, Richard Blanco's reading of his poem One Today influenced the country. What many people do not know is that, looking back, he's not sure he would have been able to write the poem if he had not been restricted to his composing desk, surrounded by pine forests piled high with snow, up on a mountainside in his new house in St Louis, Missouri.

Prior to relocating to Maine, Richard lived most of his life in San Antonio. In 2012, he was working as a civil engineer and writing in his spare time when his partner, Mark, got a task that needed the couple to relocate to the small ski town of St Louis, Missouri. Richard was a little uncertain at initially, he was delighted at the possibility of leaving the traffic and sound of city life and having the chance to compose more.

Being the kid of Cuban exiles and an immigrant himself, who had actually concerned San Antonio as an infant, Richard has always longed to discover a location where he belongs. A primary theme in his writing is what it takes to make a place seem like house. And he now recognizes that living in the country was a natural for him. "I believe I have actually always wished to move to the nation," he says. "I always had a destination to it, specifically considering that I went back to Cuba to check out in my teenagers. Most of my household is from backwoods in Cuba, and I felt very in your home there."

Moved to: St Louis, Missouri
Richard and Mark didn't understand how this town would get them, however they have been happily surprised. St Louis has actually invited "the gay couple from San Antonio," as they were referred to for a while, with open arms. Richard is a reputable member of the community and-- given that the inauguration-- a town celeb.

It's been a change. "After that honeymoon phase, the first thing that began to prod on me was having to drive everywhere," says useful reference Richard. And shopping is difficult: "I live in a resort town, so I can get sushi, but I can't get inkjet cartridges or underwear." To his surprise, he likewise missed out on heading out: "Sometimes you just want to dress up and feel fabulous-- and there is nowhere to do that. I've outgrown all my suits living here." He also misses the anonymity of city life: "There is no such thing as just a waiter in St Louis. You know their entire life, and you know their children, where they grew up ... and they know everything about you. It's beautiful, but periodically Mark and I will wish to head out to go over something over supper and ... the walls have ears."

"After a year of fighting the elements, I had to make choices about where to stop landscaping and let nature take over," says Richard. "I got a little brought away and made these mounds of work for myself and ended up not enjoying what I originally came here for.

After moving to the nation, Richard at first continued to work from another location on agreement engineering tasks, however the more affordable expense of living in Maine permitted him to move focus and prioritize his poetry. And given that 2013, he's been able to work nearly totally as an author, leaving his engineering profession behind.

He provides the place where he lives a lot of credit for all this. Life in the country has actually offered him area and time to focus on his writing. And perhaps more importantly, it has lastly provided him a place that feels like house.

Joe and Ashley Duggers
A surprise service difficulty turned these Silicon Valley entrepreneurs into a household of rural ranchers.
Moved from: Sacramento, California
A couple of years back, Joe and Ashley Duggers ran and owned 11 services in the Silicon Valley city of Sacramento: a discovering center, a maker area, a floral designer shop and a play area for toddlers, simply among others. All this in addition to raising 4 women under the age of 6. They appreciated their hectic, full lives however fretted that the abundance of Silicon Valley would provide their children a skewed viewpoint on the world.

This led them to a new potential venture-- running a livestock ranch that could supply meat to their restaurant. The property had two homes, one a historical Victorian in desperate requirement of repair work and one a comfortable two-bedroom cabin. They jumped in and bought the property in 2013, hoping to one day find a method to move to the cattle ranch complete time.

Transferred to: Fort Jones, California, pop. 688
The Duggers' original plan was to work with ranchers to run business. Joe and Ashley would increase on weekends so the women could invest time running totally free in the outdoors. "We always had a desire to raise our kids in large open spaces in a more rural community," states Ashley. "Joe grew up on a farm and hoped we 'd return to the land at some point. After showing up every weekend for a number of months and discovering a gem of a community here, we rapidly decided this was where we desired to raise our children. We offered our services and moved up the day our earliest child completed kindergarten and have actually been all-in since."

After 4 years of hard work, the Duggers have built a successful pasture-raised meat business. Looking for more ways to make a living off the land, this year they launched Five Ashley Retreats, where they host women at their hillside ranch camp for a weekend of farm tasks and cooking classes.

The Duggers do not have the conveniences, tidy clothes or complimentary time they had in their previous life, and have had to become more self-sufficient: "In the city, I might get anything done at the drop of a hat," says Ashley. Whatever moves a little more gradually, however living on a ranch suggests you can develop anything you can envision yourself, which is more rewarding than working with someone to do it."

Another payoff is seeing their women grow into courageous, independent and diligent free-range women. At the end of a long day, when the animals are fed, Ashley and Joe love to mix a cocktail, put a Five Ashley roast in the oven and sit on their front porch to watch their daughters run free in the yard.

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